There’s been many incredible things I’ve gotten to do in my lifetime. Raising 5 beautiful children, being married to a godly man for over 30 years, planting a church, and helping women out of poverty. In each new season, God seems to call me to something completely different that stretches me. He wants us to always be growing into the new, no matter how big or small it may seem.
 
Over the last few years, God has made a shift in my life and asked me to focus on my community and family. I’ve spent the last decade working in global business and because of the width of that reach, I thought I’d always be called to that space. But as I built up a team to carry that business forward, God began showing me the next.
 
He began to show me what was going on in the community around me. He began to show me that my neighbors needed love. He began to reveal the tragedies of sex trafficking and heartbreak right down my street. He began to call me to use my skills in business to create change right where I live in Flagler County.
 
And it could be easy for me to say, ‘well, that’s not making global change, God. It’s not BIG change.’ I’ll be honest, I’ve struggled with that thinking at the beginning. But every time we use our gifts to make the world a better place, we are making BIG change.
 
So this last year, I’ve begun to flex my community impact muscles. I believe that world change begins with strong communities. It’s why I believe sustainable business is so important. It’s why I planted a church. It’s why I started Trades of Hope. My next big adventures will be local ministries and businesses that directly (or even indirectly) bring together communities in a way I know WILL change the world.

Here’s a few of the ways I’ve been doing that:

• Over the last year, I’ve had more time to jump back into the church I planted with my husband and friends. I’ve used my skillset to serve on the Executive Team and to create systems for lasting change in this community. Through programs that provide counseling, a Family Center that will offer services to the underprivileged, and outreach events to those who are broken, it’s been an exciting season.

 

• I’ve been teaching and leading entrepreneurial groups with local business owners. Some of the GREATEST fruit we will ever grow is the fruit grown on other people’s trees. Because of that, investing in the next generation is so important to me.

 

• I’ve had more time to invest in local entrepreneurial ventures – a gym that serves our community’s physical health and a business flipping houses that will provide new beginnings for families.

• I've continued my calling as a motivational speaker and have enjoyed using my voice to inspire and motivate others. 

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• I’ve consulted with and trained up local and national church planters that will be the NEXT for this country’s movement of God.

 

• And finally, my most recent adventure! When a prominent local business came up for sale in our community, I felt God whispering to me that this was part of our next. By buying this business, we could become part of the fabric of our community. Inspired by others who take small businesses and mold them into life-changing spaces (Chip + Joanna, anyone?), we decided to jump into this challenge. So I’m excited to share that we bought our local town’s favorite ice cream shop, the Waffle Cone!

 
Ice cream has a magical way of bringing together all kinds of people. And getting to oversee an environment where we can bring more magic, laughter, and the love of Jesus to our community is a dream come true.
 
So, if you see me out and about in Flagler County, I might be running to a business meeting, stopping by our Trades of Hope offices to root on our poverty ending team, attending Movies in the Park with my granddaughter Amelia, preaching on a Sunday morning, OR even scooping some ice cream. Just remember that world change WILL always happen when you choose to make a difference and invest in those around you.

​Do you feel like you and your spouse are never connecting during the week and you're living in two separate worlds?  You're just so busy that by the time you DO see each other, you're exhausted, and just want to watch T.V.? 
Here's one tip you can try this week that might help you make that connection.

Are you mature? (I do not mean in age.) Part of our maturity is to be able to take criticism and even ask others, "What weaknesses do you see in me that could hinder me in life?" Not many of us want to ask this question but if you can, without making excuses, you will mature. Don't fool yourself, we all have blind spots in our personalities.

Are you willing to ask someone you trust today? I asked and this is one that I got. "You seem to have to say the same thing 5 different ways and it wastes people's time so people don't want to engage in a conversation with you because it lasts too long. "
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That may seem easy and not harsh, but trust me when you hear yours it will sting and you will want to make excuses. But don't, thank the person for being brave and loving you enough to tell you and take the meat and spit out the bones. And if someone has said hard stuff to you recently, know how hard it was and believe they must love you because it is so much easier to avoid confrontation and run! If you are brave, ask someone today!

Is your greatest desire in life to be comfortable? Or impactful?

God rarely uses anyone who desires comfort, but instead loves to call us out of our comfort zones to do great things for HIM. But you have to be willing, because the next thing He calls you to might not be the most comfortable, but it WILL be good. Are you ready to get out of your box for Jesus? Listen to Holly Wehde share about being out of the box.

Today Pastor Mike & Holly share some of the main ingredients that have given them an Uncommon Marriage that has brought glory to God for over 28 years.